Fighting Over Fido: Pets in Mediation

Our pets provide a refuge of unconditional love, support, and calm during trying times. We treasure our walks to the dog park, the healing purrs of a cat sitting on our lap, and the overall companionship pets provide. They become members of our family who we love and cherish.

When divorce, separation, or child-rearing responsibility issues unfold, a very important consideration is what happens to the family dog, cat, or other pet? Who will pay for the premium dog food, doggy daycare, that expensive litter, and routine vet bills? Who will pay for heartworm medicine and for expensive unforeseen emergencies?

Beyond the financial considerations, who is going to take on the responsibility of caring for fido? Will this be a full-time arrangement, or maybe a shared custody situation? How will your children be affected by the custody of the dog or cat?

Another important issue relevant for many families is how to structure the agreement for the working pet, such as an ESA or therapy animal. For instance, if a child has a therapy dog, logistics need to be discussed in the mediation room about how the dog will be cared for and accommodated as it moves between homes.

These are just a few important issues that can arise when we have pets in a family redefining themselves.

Finding a professional who will not roll their eyes or sigh when you mention your pets and their needs can produce great comfort. Mediation is often a great place to discuss these issues, as professionals in other fields may feel that such discussion is below them.

As a pet owner, Kelly knows the importance of caring for our animals and would love to facilitate your family/pet mediation. Contact Kelly today at kelly@ragenmediation.com to explore options to best mediate your dispute involving animals.